Romance Fraud Extends Beyond the Online Realm, Manifesting as Real-Life Deception

Romance fraud is not limited to online interactions but can also occur in person, as demonstrated by Australian writer Stephanie Wood’s experience. The new television series Fake, based on Wood’s memoir, sheds light on the lies and betrayals of an intimate relationship, providing a glimpse into the world of romance fraud. Offenders use the guise of a relationship to exploit victims financially or commit identity crimes. They employ grooming techniques, social engineering tactics, and psychological abuse to gain the trust and compliance of their victims. Offenders target vulnerabilities and establish strong bonds before manipulating victims into providing money for various emergencies or investments. The financial losses reported by Australians in 2023 alone exceeded A$200 million, with additional non-financial harms to victims’ well-being. When the relationship ends, victims are left with not only financial losses but also emotional devastation. It is important to recognize that romance fraud can occur both online and in person, as demonstrated by Wood’s and other victims’ experiences. To prevent romance fraud, it is crucial to create a culture that encourages victims to come forward and raises awareness about the issue. Individuals should maintain a healthy level of skepticism, conduct their own investigations, and think carefully before sending money to anyone. It is essential to recognize deception in all its forms and not allow fraudsters to define our ability to trust. If you or someone you know has been a victim of romance fraud, reporting it to ReportCyber, seeking support from iDcare, and consulting Scamwatch for prevention advice are recommended.